NAWRB’s Diversity & Inclusion Leadership Council (NDILC) introduced their Ten Women Leadership Principles in 2020, which they collectively created to help women in the workforce become more effective leaders at any stage of their careers, and empower other women to reach their full potential. This is a universal guide for all levels of leadership, and any woman can benefit from applying them. This week, NDILC presents the eighth principle, “Be Present” shared with a personal story by NDILC Member Tami Bonnell, CEO of EXIT Realty International Corp.
In the upcoming weeks, each of these principles will be presented in detail with a personal message from an NDILC member about her experiences applying these principles to her professional and personal life. To learn more about the NDILC, please visit www.NAWRB.com/NDILC/.
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Women Leadership Principle #8: Be Present by Tami Bonnell
Be Present: Sharing your time is one of the most valuable gifts you can give. Do it with intention by truly being present.
The most valuable gift you can give someone is your time. Staying in the present tense can be difficult, we have more distractions than ever, especially with technology, having so much of your world in your phone. The more you stay present the better you will get at it.It is excellent for your overall health and the quality of your relationships. In leadership people follow leaders they trust and you cannot build trust without a good relationship.
People want to matter and all people grow in an environment where they feel like they do. When people feel like they are heard ,they feel comfortable enough to share their concerns instead of coming to their own conclusions, conclusions that could be based on fear from not communicating. Connecting is a two way street, understanding each other, both people being heard, too often we are thinking of what to say next instead of actively listening.
In business, people want a trusted advisor, one that is focused on their contribution. When you make a disciplined effort to stay in the moment, ask effective questions, and put yourself in their shoes you are demonstrating they are worth your time, that you respect and value them. It is the perfect opportunity to help them rise to their best self. When we lead with our heart and our mind we are building more leaders, which at the core is the very thing leadership is about.
Visualize before you start your day how you want it to go. How do you want people to feel, what is the best outcome? The more you do it ,the more it will come out the way you pictured. People are attracted to Servant Leadership and you, along with them, will grow from the experience.
NDILC’s Ten Women Leadership Principles
- Acknowledge Trailblazers: Know and learn from the women who came before you. We are all standing on the shoulders of giants: “So, what does a trailblazer even mean? Defined in the formal context, it is a person who blazes a trail for others to follow through unsettled country or wilderness; pathfinder; a pioneer in any field of endeavor; a vigorous independent; a person who is the first to do something that other people do later. Implied in this definition is the fact that these people are leaders, risk takers and are not afraid to push boundaries.” Read More.
- Keep Achieving: Effective leaders always keep learning. There is always something to learn and improve upon: “Achieving. Learning. Growing. Changing…all words that are used very often to tell us what we should be doing and what we must be doing in order to survive and be effective in today’s world. No one would debate the need for continuous learning and growth. Information continues to bombard us from every angle, but is that really knowledge?” Read More.
- Believe: Whatever the mind can conceive, it can achieve.Believe: “Think and Grow Rich is not about money. Does it seem out of place or sorts to reference a book whose title suggests financial aspirations during a once in a century pandemic when everyone is thinking about safety and survival instead of personal growth?” Read More.
- Pass the Torch: Give opportunities to future generations of women. Your legacy will be the people you help along the journey: “Doesn’t everyone want a legacy? A reason to be remembered? What do you want to be remembered for? As most people mature in their lives, they start to realize that their relationships, and specifically the people they have helped along the way, are more important than material things.” Read More.
- Know Yourself: Be authentic and lead in a way that is true to you. Own your unique talents and strengths, and empower those around you: “Authentic leadership is grounded in who you are not who you want to be or who you think you should be. This profoundly shapes how you act and what you accomplish. Authentic leadership empowers you to draw on your strengths to bring out the best in others.” Read More.
- Speak Out: Unconscious bias is present, but ignoring it only perpetuates it. Take a stand and speak out: “How many times should it feel comfortable not to say something when you see unconscious bias? Never! Until recently, most of us were all consumed in catching a flight, running the household from afar, postponing our health checkups, being briefed from one meeting to the next and fitting in a bite to eat as part of our work agenda.” Read More.
- Listen: Never assume anything about anyone. Everyone has their own story that makes them who they are: To truly “LISTEN” is one of the most powerful words in this decade. In 2017 at NAWRB’s Annual Conference, Marcia Davies was the moderator for the Women’s Trade Associations Power Lunch, and through her questioning, “Listen” became my mantra on how to improve the narrative.” Read More.
- Be Present: Sharing your time is one of the most valuable gifts you can give. Do it with intention by truly being present.
- Prepare for the Future: Women with advanced skills today will be ready for tomorrow’s challenges.
- Lead by Example: Inclusion isn’t enough. Press for parity and strive for excellence in everything.
Stay tuned for other articles that will expound on each of these principles to assist women professionals in applying them to their individual goals.
The NDILC is dedicated to raising the number of women leaders and growing women’s employment and empowerment at all levels in the housing ecosystem. The Council, composed of senior executive women, works diligently toward gender equality and obtaining equal opportunity for women across America. To learn more about the NDILC, please visit www.NAWRB.com/NDILC/.